Jean, Jonoâs foster mother, made an effort to get him back to his birth parents. But on May 18, 1990, she made the next move and adopted Jono after they had been responding to her letters for five years in a row.
I thus have two birthdays! At the 2015 Nord Conference, Jono said, âI used to tell other kids that my mom went to the hospital and she looked at all the babies and she chose me, whereas their parents had been stuck with them.â
Jono expressed in a heartfelt 2015 Facebook post that he would never forget his foster mother.
âThis woman has the largest heart of anyone Iâve ever met, despite her little diminutive stature. This woman has spent thirty years caring for foster children; she is incredibly loving and selfless. This woman felt she had let them down in some way, and she would cry each time a foster child went to a new home. This woman, a 40-year-old single mother, accepted me even though she had no idea what was ahead. This woman gave me an incredible family, along with Claire and Stephen, when she adopted me. This woman is a true angel, given to me just when I needed her.
Jono Lancaster on Facebook
Jean is the angelâs name; she is my mother and idol.
Jono turned into an extremely rebellious teenager. He occasionally did things just to get attention. He did it to divert attention away from his physical attributes, which were the true issue. He tried to win folks over with sweets and copious amounts of wine.
âI felt like I was by myself.â
However, Jono quickly made the decision to be a force for good and use his experience to serve others thanks to Jeanâs love and care as well as his own strong spirit.
Jono, who is 36 years old, has dedicated his life to supporting others with Treacher Collins syndrome worldwide. He has been leading adult autistic peopleâs teams.
He meets kids, offers them encouragement and hope, and has a conversation with their parents about their predicament. At the moment, Jono works as a motivational instructor and frequently discusses Treacher Collins disease.
He claims, âMy parents still donât want anything to do with me.â âMy mentality has changed, and thatâs what makes it so effective. [âŚ] I wouldnât alter a thing. More than anything, my attitude was incapacitating. You can accomplish anything if you have the correct mindset.
Australian two-year-old Zackary Walton is one of Jonoâs mentees.
Zackary has experienced bullying already, despite his youth. But heâs had a lifelong companion in Jono.
Sarah Walton, the boyâs mother, told Adelaide Now, âWhen he said he was coming to Australia, we knew we had to meet him and itâs made us so happy to see Zack meet someone like him.â
This photo was shared on Facebook when Jono and Zackary first connected in November 2014, and itâs really beautiful.
Wife of Jono Lancaster
Jono got to know Laura Richardson in 2015 when he was employed as a fitness instructor.
After they fell in love, Jonoâs condition was accepted by Laura. She accepted him for who he was, and the two of them set out to make everyone around them smile and feel good.
Before he met Laura, Jono always believed that if he ever had children and wanted to build a family, he would adopt them.
âBeing a father has always been my desire. I long for moments with my father and son; although my adoptive mother was wonderful, I was never raised by a father figure, and I sincerely miss that. In 2011, Jono told the BBC, âI want to take my child to dance, gymnastics, football, or the school runâwhatever they want.â
Any child Jono fathers has a fifty percent chance of being Treacher Collins. Thus, the mere notion of bearing a child of his own evoked a cascade of feelings, ethical dilemmas, and introspection. Although Jono had a relatively normal birth, many children with Treacher Collins have serious health issues, and some are born without the ability to breathe.
So perhaps adoption was the best choice, Jono reasoned.
âIt was very effective for me, and I think itâs fantastic to give a child another chance.â However, Laura believes that she will have the strong desire to become pregnant, and she is concerned that either the child will want to discover its biological parents or that she wonât be able to care for someone elseâs child,â Jono added.
She also has a strong desire for our child to be âourâ child. And I truly want to take care of her when she gets pregnant, so Iâll be the one to come downstairs at two in the morning when she wants a pickle or to sit with her on the sofa.
Sadly, Jono and Laura never raised a family. They made the decision to part ways and move on after ten years together. Jono posted an explanation of the choice on Instagram, saying:
âAfter ten incredible years together, Laura and I made the decision to part ways since we werenât developing as a pair. There was only mutual respect and it had nothing to do with looks.
Breakups can never be made to sound good, in my opinion. It was devastating,â Jono retorted.
Watch the video below to hear Jono recount his experience. I can assure you that it wonât pass you by:
Source: YouTube/LadbibleTV
Despite the tragic nature of Jonoâs experience, it is also immensely inspirational to witness his bravery and fortitude as he utilizes them to support other kids in similar circumstances.
I sincerely hope we can contribute to the increased awareness of Jonoâs tale. Not only to motivate others, but also to instill confidence and hope in those who require it. because everyone needs a little motivation from time to time.
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